A private dating journal
Track a guy you met on Hinge
A private journal made for what happens after the match.
7-day free trial on Pro. iOS only for now.
You matched on Hinge. The first date felt good. The texting slowed down. He cancelled the second date. Now you are two weeks in, trying to figure out if this is going somewhere or if he is just keeping you on the back burner.
Hinge gets you the match. Spilled helps you read what comes next.
Dating apps are great at getting you in the door. They are terrible at telling you whether the person on the other end of the chat is actually showing up for you.
Spilled is the private journal you wished you had between dates. You log what actually happens. He cancelled an hour before. He sent flowers. He went quiet for three days. The little stuff that does not feel like proof of anything until you see it stacked together.
After a few entries, the patterns start to show. Spilled flags them automatically. Breadcrumbing. High cancellation rate. Hot and cold cycles. You stop wondering if you are reading too much into things and start trusting what you have been seeing.
What you can log
Anything you would tell your group chat. The cancelled plans. The 11pm thumbs up reaction instead of the call he promised. The flowers. The way he answered when you asked about meeting his friends. The week he went quiet.
Each entry gets tagged with what happened (cancellation, effort, no response, breadcrumbing, jealousy, future talk, and more). Free users tap the tags manually. Pro reads your entry and tags it automatically.
What you get back
A consistency score from 0 to 100. Red, yellow, or green zone based on the math of your entries. Pattern flags fire when the data tells a story (high cancellation rate, breadcrumbing, hot and cold cycles, controlling behavior, broken promises).
With Pro, you can tap any flag and get a written read on what is happening. Personalized to your specific entries, not generic advice. Like a wise friend who has been reading your texts the whole time.
Start tracking what is actually happening.
7-day free trial on Pro. Cancel anytime.
Questions, answered
Does the guy I am tracking know I am using Spilled?
No. Spilled is completely private. He cannot find, search, or access anything you log. Even if he downloads the app himself, your data is invisible to him. Your journal lives on your phone.
How many entries do I need before patterns show up?
You see your consistency score from your first entry. Pattern flags usually start firing once you have logged three or more entries that show a repeated behavior.
Can I track more than one guy from Hinge?
Yes. Both Free and Pro support unlimited connections. Pro adds multi-connection comparison so you can see them side by side.
What if I stop seeing him?
You can archive the connection. All entries stay in the app, just read-only. You can unarchive anytime, or delete the connection permanently if you want a clean slate.