Guides

The patterns of modern dating, decoded

Breadcrumbing, situationships, the slow fade, love bombing. Every guide explains a pattern, how to recognize it, and how Spilled helps you see it in your own data.

Track a guy you met on Hinge

A private journal made for what happens after the match.

Is he breadcrumbing me?

Stop guessing. Let the data answer for you.

A dating journal app made for modern dating

Track what actually happens. See the patterns. Trust what you see.

A tracker for the situationship you cannot name

Stop guessing what this is. Start seeing what it actually is.

Track the silence, not just the texts

A ghosting tracker that catches the pattern, not just the moment.

A love bombing tracker that catches both halves

Intense early effort followed by withdrawal is the pattern. Spilled sees both.

A floodlighting tracker for fast-track intimacy

When someone shares too much too soon, the data sees it.

Track the red flags you keep seeing on Hinge

A private journal for the patterns you cannot unsee.

Track breadcrumbing with guys from Bumble

When the chat is always on but the plans never happen, that is the pattern.

For the Tinder situationship that will not name itself

A private journal that reads what your data has been showing.

A tracker for the talking stage

Is this building toward something or just comfortable limbo? The data knows.

Why is he hot and cold?

Track the cycle instead of riding it.

A future faking tracker for promises that never land

Big talk about the future, zero follow-through. Spilled measures the gap.

A slow fade tracker that catches the decline

Ghosting in slow motion is still ghosting. See it while it is happening.

A dating journal app for Android

Spilled is on Google Play. Track what actually happens. See the patterns.

Trust what you have been seeing

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