Guides
The patterns of modern dating, decoded
Breadcrumbing, situationships, the slow fade, love bombing. Every guide explains a pattern, how to recognize it, and how Spilled helps you see it in your own data.
Track a guy you met on Hinge
A private journal made for what happens after the match.
Is he breadcrumbing me?
Stop guessing. Let the data answer for you.
A dating journal app made for modern dating
Track what actually happens. See the patterns. Trust what you see.
A tracker for the situationship you cannot name
Stop guessing what this is. Start seeing what it actually is.
Track the silence, not just the texts
A ghosting tracker that catches the pattern, not just the moment.
A love bombing tracker that catches both halves
Intense early effort followed by withdrawal is the pattern. Spilled sees both.
A floodlighting tracker for fast-track intimacy
When someone shares too much too soon, the data sees it.
Track the red flags you keep seeing on Hinge
A private journal for the patterns you cannot unsee.
Track breadcrumbing with guys from Bumble
When the chat is always on but the plans never happen, that is the pattern.
For the Tinder situationship that will not name itself
A private journal that reads what your data has been showing.
A tracker for the talking stage
Is this building toward something or just comfortable limbo? The data knows.
Why is he hot and cold?
Track the cycle instead of riding it.
A future faking tracker for promises that never land
Big talk about the future, zero follow-through. Spilled measures the gap.
A slow fade tracker that catches the decline
Ghosting in slow motion is still ghosting. See it while it is happening.
A dating journal app for Android
Spilled is on Google Play. Track what actually happens. See the patterns.
Early dating red flags, tracked instead of excused
One red flag is a moment. Three is a pattern. Spilled counts.
A tracker for mixed signals
When his signals contradict each other, the tally breaks the tie.
Is he serious about me?
Serious is a behavior pattern, not a feeling. Track it.
A zombieing tracker for when the ghoster comes back
He is back from the dead. Your journal remembers why he left.
Why do I keep dating the same type?
Some patterns belong to him. Some span every him. See both.
