What is Spilled?

Spilled is a private dating journal for women. You log what actually happens with the person you are seeing, and Spilled uses smart tagging to surface the patterns you are too close to see.

You write entries in your own words. He cancelled again. He surprised me with dinner. He left me on read for two days. Spilled reads each entry, tags it with what it means, and tracks a consistency score for him over time.

When patterns start showing up across your entries, Spilled flags them. High cancellation rate. Hot and cold cycles. Breadcrumbing. Each flag is backed by your own data, not vibes.

If you are Pro, you can tap any flag and get a real personalized read about what this specific situation looks like. Like a wise friend who has been watching the whole time.

Spilled is built for the gray-zone dating you cannot easily explain to your friends. Situationships, ghosting, push-pull dynamics, the kind of relationships where you keep asking is he being weird or am I crazy.